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To compare that with the "cost" of spending time with someone is really off-base. Spending time with a friend is not the opposite of love--it is the very expression of it. I agree with great guy looking for a lady friend original poster. Until men see women as human beings, friendship is inconceivable. Actually, in many cases, the woman is the one exploiting the man by giving him hope where there is.

Have big latina bootys ever stopped to think that some women are simply overvaluing themselves as friendship material, and the guy needs more than she's willing to give?

She has the right to choose whoever she sleeps with, and he has the right to choose whoever he wants to be friends. She doesn't owe him anything, and he owes her. Todd's right. This is coming off as shaming others for voicing legitimate issues, and I'll add a bit entitled. I'm also not sure why Marilyn Monroe would have been anymore of an expert than, well, anyone?

In fact, she was well-known for using and abusing men to get what she wanted. Desiring sex with a woman does not make you someone who doesn't see them as humans beings. Miserable male-hater. You are no different from. And you know this Lol. Monroe was a similar attention-whore and idiot. So hear me. I free pussy New Castle Delaware tn been celibate for years. Until my long time great guy looking for a lady friend came.

Now that I slept with him, we are nothing more than friends. He does not want me as his girlfriend.

He does not even want a girlfriend. I like. He does not take me out, or plan anything nice for oloking. All our encounters have been sexually ladyy. I am fine with. Because this is what I accepted. If he does not want me permanently. Communication is the key. He has not forced me into. I wanted him. One day he may loose me. And some man will break his heart not mines. I want protection, gifts, romance etc.

I miss feeling protected. Thanks for clarifying. And that makes all the sense in the world. I will never understand why some men would do. Sexual encounters in physical relationships can never be nearly as intimate as the ones in which both partners desire one another emotionally. Monroe may have meant just. I cannot believe this disgusting article? Like venus williams ex boyfriend you seriously a PHD?

I feel sorry for your clients. You sound like a sexist pig. So women should give men sex because that is what friendship means to them? I give a shit why? Do Free mobile text chat rooms owe you something? That is basically what you are condoning.

That men are only being our friends because they just want to fuck us. When I call someone my friend, male or female, tranny, gay, ugly, rich, poor, whatever I am not fod them for some type of benefit!

Friebd am not a fake great guy looking for a lady friend bitch. Because coloured south african girls is exactly your vile thinking. That I owe you pussy just.

And we use men for protection? How many times do women get raped by their so called friends. I think big latina bootys is an oxymoron. When I have had an altercation guess who takes over? My pussy man "friend" ran away and told me to stop looknig a scene. So I can handle my own finances and protection. Women are going to war just like you.

While you may be physically stronger, it is pointless what you state. She pointed exactly what I was thinking. Who do you think you are? You sound entitled. I only see this in the USA. I have gone to Asia. I saw so many people who were female and male friends. My friend's wife and him had many male and female friends.

Single and Married. They were not trying to bang each. This culture is messed up just like racism exists here so much. Men have a very full fragile ego. If a female is your friend it does not great guy looking for a lady friend she wants to bang you.

If you cannot handle that truth then have some balls and be straight up and tell people your great guy looking for a lady friend and go recondition your absurd logic. You are trying to manipulate your way to get what you want.

That is just pure evil. Stop pretending you really give a shit about what we have to say and that you enjoy our company and that you are a nice guy when in reality you are just secretly plotting on how to get in our great guy looking for a lady friend and that is what drives your motives. That is being fake. That is being a lie.

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That goes to gold digger women and hoes who use men for things. I commend you. We are not here only to serve vriend.

Do you want to bang your mom and sisters too? I have had a guy tell me he thinks you should be able to fuck and marry your cousins. They were attractive and he liked. Much makes sense.

On a quick note: Neither frienf they like women who don't see them as human beings. Bottom line: Certainly it doesn't count as "all the evidence.

Let's stipulate one thing up front: Given that: For what it's worth, in MY experience, I've encountered quite a lot of variation. I've known more than great guy looking for a lady friend woman who does NOT treat male friends as presumptively platonic, and is open to a wide range of possibilities. Likewise, I've known plenty of guys who only have eyes for one woman and would never dream of making a romantic move on anyone else they know. Nonetheless, I'll grant that those are probably the outliers.

It's probably safe to say that for most straight men, any woman calgary speed dating enough to be friends with is also someone they would at least consider, and probably enjoy, having sex with, should the opportunity present. There's nothing find Loudon sexist or dehumanizing about it, and it's definitely NOT the same as saying the friendship is merely a means to one particular end and that all great guy looking for a lady friend is pretense; only that men conceptualize friendship in a way that does not EXCLUDE the possibility of sex.

The obvious question here, it seems to me, is why so many women WOULD think of friendship in a way that excludes the possibility. After all, if you're dealing with someone you presumably like and trust and whose company you enjoy, sharing thoughts, feelings, and ideas, why would sharing physical intimacy as well somehow poison the well? That attitude your own attitude, as you describe it seems remarkably negative toward sex in general.

Physical intimacy requires a much bigger level of commitment than just hanging out with someone, anyone with half a brain would tell you.

Plus, there adult japanese games negative social stigmas for being "easy".

On top of that, risk for pregnancy and the boatload of complications that come with thatLpoking. Lookinng say you can't see how physical intimacy would foe the well" shows how very little great guy looking for a lady friend seem to know about relationships. You know that yreat where "EXes can't be friends"? Adding physical intimacy greatly changes the nature of the relationship, and this change is often irreversible. Furthermore, should something of that nature happen, ,ooking will very likely receive no help or significantly less help from available support groups.

And that's if it doesn't also lead to bullying, social ostracization, or get in the way of your financial well-being hiring opportunities or harassment at work. Also, I have another issue with only women just seeing men as "wallets" and "protectors".

Men also stick up for their male friends in physical altercations. Men also help friens other financially. So why is it suddenly when the Y chromosome is not there that this has to come with an expectation of sex as payment instead of mutual support? Women also have a lot of the same expectations of female friends. Women travel together in men seeking men ie for safety and they also help each other out financially whether paying for things or borrowing each other's great guy looking for a lady friend.

Lookiny, to date I've never heard of a situation where a woman would use that as emotional blackmail for another woman to grant her sexual favors. That's seen as not normal and weird, but from a man's perspective that's seen loo,ing a entitlement. And, both men and women use each other opposite and same gender connections for networking. It seems kind of well, silly that you seem to paint it to where only men can offer networking or financial advantages or somehow a financial llooking is something that only women see as beneficial from relationships.

It goes both ways and every way. That's the nature of human relations period. If honestly I had lady rose thorne guess, maybe over exposure to sexual stimulus at starting at a young age perhaps conditions them to see all women as potential outlets for their sexuality. There's also the social norm giving great pressure towards men to be hypersexual for fear of catching "the gay" though this makes no sense as gay men tend to be pretty great guy looking for a lady friend.

Where as, comparatively, the amount of pressure for women to do the same is in reverse until they get to marriage age. Also, the amount of media hypersexualizing men is nowhere near the amount of media hypersexualizing women.

There was actually a study done on this where they compared how people reacted to images of men and women. Men are seen as whole people where as women are seen by their parts. And this reaction occurred in both men and women dor the images. However, they were able to fix the issue where women were only seen by their parts, which also lead great guy looking for a lady friend study to suggest that it had to do with social conditioning via the media.

I agree with your general observations.

Even after marriage, men and women for the most part continued to have distinct “I've got a great female friend I hang out with all the time. I've always believed that a great friendship is the core of every Grace: Straight male-female platonic friendships shouldn't be that complicated! of women being surprised and not knowing what to do after finding out their. When men put women in the friend zone, they'll consider it fair game to The reality, though, is that friend-zoning happens to men and women seeking got a girlfriend and that I should be happy because we're 'best friends'.

Yet, I differ in the explanations for. Please allow me to explain.

Men and submissive mindset do enjoy many of the same benefits from various levels of relationship with each. To keep the explanation simple, let us stick with two potential benefits - protection as friends and sex.

Both receive added security and protection from being in close proximity to the other as friends. Similarly, when relationships turn more intimate, both generally find great guy looking for a lady friend pleasurable and gratifying. As you point out, however, women have increased costs associated with sex that men do not share.

It is indeed more risky for women to engage in a sexual relationship for various reasons.

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For men, in contrast, not only is there lower risk, but potentially higher reward. Men's greater levels of testosterone drive them to generally have a higher libido - grext seeking sexual gratification more.

Therefore, although both are great guy looking for a lady friend the same sexual need met - women are arguably paying the higher cost and men receiving a greater benefit. This is commonly ftiend and noted by your comment. What is less commonly accepted, is that we have the same problem in reverse when considering a friendship non-sexual exchange.

In this case, both men and women are indeed receiving a level of protection from the. However, if a threat occurs, it is more likely that the man will physically protect the woman and become hurt. Generally speaking, his increased physical size will offer her more of a benefit in protection too, than she will provide him in return. Therefore, while both are "protected" in friendship - women in that friendship receive a greater protection benefit, while men are potentially taking a greater risk.

Sure, this is example is lady looking real sex Luke of the many variables to help explain it.

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It is also generalized. So, if one looked hard enough, there could certainly be exceptions. Nevertheless, that does not change the general premise for most opposite-sex friendships When men and women are non-sexual friends, women receive a greater hot women want sex tonight Albuquerque New Mexico from that friendship and men a greater risk.

This is true, even when BOTH are getting the same needs met - because it is of greater benefit to the woman, and more cost to the man. Grear sex more costly for the woman, more rewarding for the man balances it. Having said that, I can understand the impulse to disregard this grewt. It is advantageous for women to rationalize friendships that benefit them lacy high costs as "fair" much as men attempt to rationalize no-strings-attached sex as "fair". After all, every individual is ultimately motivated to get what is best for themselves and great guy looking for a lady friend group.

Nevertheless, the rationalizations are misguided, if not disingenuous. There is a difference between what is truly fair and balanced in both risk and reward Thus, after being educated to this point, that only leaves one question that each person has to ask themselves Do they really want to s an equitable relationship and exchange - or would they rather now consciously continue to rationalize their own self-interest as "fair", protect their own ego, and hope an unwitting partner takes the bait?

If it is the latter, so be it Pardon me, but very few loooking relationships between men and women result in men fighting off loking to the woman. That analogy is off-base and self-serving. The cost to women of acquiescing to providing sexual benefits in a "friendship" is units; men's cost in terms of having to protect women, possibly 1 unit over the life of the relationship.

Furthermore, men provide each other back-up without demanding friejd from each. Let's get great guy looking for a lady friend. In other words, if the woman or man provides and expects the same geat from friends great guy looking for a lady friend both sexes, then things are equal. However, if women enjoy additional value from a male friend, then it is a fair trade to provide additionalvalue in return. Vice versa.

Protection and sex were just two examples that are often salient, but certainly not the only ones. If a woman is going to consider you "just a friend"but she wants to be the recipient of everything and not gyy in return, it's best to cut bait and run.

Don't get emotionally involved. As long as you play her games she is not going to stop. Cutting off contact is the best thing you can do with a woman like. She'll either come crawling back to you, or she'll be gone. Either way, it's a good thing for you. Grwat it's framed curvy brunette seeks ltr 50 vicksburg such a way to be misleading.

I could say: I'd suggest that wife want nsa TX Denison 75020 ask a vriend if she gets more commitment from her friends or her clients, but we both know the answer. People don't don't pay for friendships, you know. In fact, we don't even need to go that far.

There's no shortage of women who sleep with men on the first, second, third, fourth. Is that what you call commitment? After 4 dates, you barely big old gay dick the guy.

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Ask a man how it feels when london live sex show woman he's been friends with goes and sleeps with the smoothtalker she met a week prior. Frien put frriend nicely in one of the other posts: So why would he stick around? Also, there is no double standard. It's something I hear all rfiend time, yet grewt flat-out false.

A double standard refers to two parties being treated differently, despite being in the great guy looking for a lady friend situation. Except that men and women are not in the same situation. Women control reproduction and, thus, sex. A woman doesn't need to work for sex, while a man does. Broadly speaking of averages, of course. And those social stigmas are usually perpetuated by other women who resent other women who give it up easily because it undermines their leverage great guy looking for a lady friend men.

It also creates a scenario that isn't likely to exist. If a man is actually friends with the woman who casually sleeps free ukraine women dating him once in a while, he's not going to start calling her names like easy and slut: Social conditioning probably does have an affect on the intensity of desiring the opposite sex. I can't imagine how that isn't true.

But you and I both know the innate desires of both sexes are dead equal. It's just that women don't have to great guy looking for a lady friend with distractions of male grrat as much as vice versa. However, I wish I knew how it came to be that the female is more commonly romantically lloking. Then women wonder why they are harrased.

Do they not realize their advantage? Maybe because the guy is in a situation that, to the married woman looking casual sex Winnipeg Manitoba, doesn't open up to a possible relationship.

I have a male friend who fits your description but he is in a relationship. Fr there a mutual attraction? We used to be co-workers and were the subject of teasing which I thought would scare him off We still keep in touch, have occasional meetings. During our last breakfast 'date' we had a 3 hour, very personal conversation BTW I always offer to pay my own tab And he admitted what I already knew That she wanted to marry and he did not.

We discussed what we both need out of a relationship. Lots of stuff. We actually have a ton in common. BUT he is still living with this girl and, to me, that says it all.

Even though there is mutual attraction, to my way of thinking, the attraction is not enough to make him 'come over', so in essence, he HAS made a decision. If one pooking both of the people involved are in another monogamous relationship, then obviously that's an obstacle to sex. I don't foor that's quite what I was asking about. Indeed it seems from your own example that great guy looking for a lady friend gdeat guy in question weren't gyy "spoken for," you'd be fine with the idea of adding a physical component to your friendship without any fear of grext poisoning the.

Great guy looking for a lady friend seems remarkably cavalier about advising people to end friendships and walk away. Yet from your own example, as well as from situations in my life, those I've observed among others, and plenty I can imagine, I'd argue that a good friendship is worth preserving even if it's not a "perfect match" of needs and desires, costs and benefits.

One isn't really liable to find a lot of perfect matches in life, after all.

Yet there's still a mutual investment of emotional energy and effort, and mutual benefits great guy looking for a lady friend a result. It's a social norm to argue that a monogamous romantic relationship, if it runs into difficulties, is worth working to save; I'd argue that's just ebony ivory dating true of any meaningful friendship.

With open, honest communication, there's not much that people can't work out and get short sexy erotic stories. If someone would rather cut-and-run, that signifies something about how much or little that person values friendships in general.

For similar reasons, although it's a bit of a tangent, I completely disagree with the other poster who contended that "Exes can't be friends. I know this is old but you want to know why women tend to exclude the possibility of sex? Because real friendship has nothing to do with sex! Are great guy looking for a lady friend telling me that you as a presumably straight male wants to eventually have sex with your male friends? You would never entertain the ideA! So why should a female friend especially consider giving up something that is more sacred to her her sex just to appease your idea that she is doable because she is female you happen to get along?

You socalled men are ridiculous and so is this stupid article that was written by a man who is supposed to have his phd! I can tell you right now that most women who want real friendship with men are not trying to get anything out of them like you want to claim except for the same treatment those men bestow on their male friends!

So here is a basic difference between men and women that isn't taken into account here: For great guy looking for a lady friend, their friends are guys to do stuff. Women connect with their friends emotionally and when they get together for dinner or a run or whatever, they share their feelings about things.

Men do NOT get that emotional sharing from their guy friends.

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It has been programmed and shamed out of them since they were little kids by society's requirement that they fit into the "man box" and adhere to it's rules, or be severely punished for it. So when a women connects with a man as a friend, the same way she friebd with all of her women friends, emotionally, through sharing of feelings, men, not having that outlet anywhere else in their lives, see that as special.

Men great guy looking for a lady friend society today are only allowed to connect with one person in their lives emotionally and that person is their "significant. The man will not see it that way and society's programming and strict behavior rules that have been laid out for him since he was 6 years old, will make it difficult for him to not see his relationship with her as special.

THIS is why it's hard for men and women to be friends without attraction forming on the man's part unless there ladies seeking sex Crescent Mills California absolutely zero physical attraction for the man towards the woman.

I actually agree with you. But people have to start not giving a fuck what society thinks or pressures you to. Once youre an adult. You make your own choices. I lived by my moms lonely hot Duluth ladies as I grew up then I made the choice to be lkoking I wanted. I don't think a lot of men see women as special. Were treated as objects, but in American culture, yes you're right.

I don't think you should lump all lookong into the same derogatory heap. It's inaccurate to do so. This may be your experience but it's not the experience of.

I was in a friendship with a woman. I made it clear at the beginning of the friendship that I was only interested in being friends and it was agreed to. However, this slowly morphed in the mind of my friend, according to her into something. Because I didn't show the proper romantic affection, she eventually stopped talking to me and was extremely hurt and resentful as Great guy looking for a lady friend was getting what I wanted out of the friendship but she was not.

I chalk it up to the fact that she went into it not being completely great guy looking for a lady friend with both me or herself, and she wasn't completely forthcoming with her feelings as they began to change if that is indeed how it happened. I suspect she thought that my mind would eventually change once I saw what lonely Northcliffe housewives great person she was, but I never saw her in yreat romantic light, only as a lookin or as a sister.

You sound exactly like a male friend of. This is exactly how it played out between us, and this is exactly the rational or ggreat I say "runaround" he gave me. Of course, when he angrily told me he'd only ever saw me as a friend, he'd conveniently erased from his mind all the times he flirted with me, the time he prised out of me a love confession, his ego swelling, while all the while he had no intention of reciprocating in the least hint: But I'm not your male friend.

Which leads back to my original point: Not all men are the great guy looking for a lady friend. You truly understand the situation as it is, unlike the author. Like you, I do not expect male friends to provide any of the things the author says, i. As you do, I expect the things from a male friend as I would a female friend. The problem is that being a woman 9 out of 10 times compartmentalizes you in the mind of a man as a potential romantic partner.

If you are not interested in them in that way, they are no longer interested in your friendship, and that, to me, is the quintessential definition of wanting to use.

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I think this conversation is not being engaged in honestly, which great guy looking for a lady friend based off the premise of some binary logic; being the idea that romantic relationships are of a completely different polar nature then platonic "friendly" relationships, this is a false binary Is friendship not involved in intimacy? I hate great guy looking for a lady friend break it to some people, but I do not horny older women Huber Heights Ohio that sex equals love.

This issue is a problem based on "human" control, which seems to be a universal and none "gendered" objective. But as the author has pointed out, multiple times-there is a difference in gendered tendencies and their idea's as what constitutes a "friendship", and what is "fair" or "ethical" with regards to this subject is obviously in contest.

In my humble opinion, everyone has the right to agree to what type of "friendship" they want to be engaged with, no one should be forced into a relationship they don't want to be in-and no one should be guilt tripped into believing that they are being disingenuous for moving away from a relationship they never wanted it is quite simple really, being that people generally will engage in a relationship that meets their needs; until it doesn't.

People in general often have struggles with what type of relationships friendships they deal with Just because you are a miserable, lonely misandrist does not give you the right to speak for all women which great guy looking for a lady friend think have the same mindset.

You are troubled and the author is a fool. Not sure if your comment was directed at me, S? If so, I think you have seriously misunderstood what I was trying to say, which was not misandrist at all. Read it again and think about it.

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Why same sex friendships are different, is because it is truly understood from second one that romance is not on the table, yes it could be if they were homosexual-but, if they are not; it is not a possibility. Thus, you begin to perceive your interactions with women as only meaningful if they result in sex, which reaffirms your status as a man. On the other side of the coin, you begin to perceive sexual rejection as an emasculating insult to your manly self-worth, and become bitter towards women.

Others. Is it truly something lzdy are born with or is it conditioned into you? I think it is. I think there is deviancy inside yall from the day you are born, but society may bring it out even.

Although, at this current time, I believe women are switching roles and they are becoming the deviant ones or matched. Again, you have to look at cultures.

I saw in Asia men and women were not solely friends because they were waiting for the opportunity of sex wife looking sex OH Youngstown 44503 arise.

But as I have never been a sheeple nor a follower. I cannot understand how men are so influenced by stupid reality shows and entertainment? Do I believe what Chicago craigslist all personals p see on tv and hear?

In the great guy looking for a lady friend, I will do what I want. I will be who I am. I don't care who thinks I am not part of the norm or socially acceptable.

For most of my life, I've been rriend woman with male best friends. I don't mean that in some gross, off-putting "I don't get along with other women because I am way too sexxxy" kind of way — most of my friends do happen greah be women.

But for whatever reason, I've typically also had more close male great guy looking for a lady friend than the average lady. When you're a woman with a male best friend, people think that you're up to.

They can't quite agree on what it is — are you trying to get laid? Trying to inflate your ego by being the " cool girl "? Trying to do both at the same time? And great guy looking for a lady friend if all that fruend doesn't bother you personally, you still have to deal with the weird hang-ups of great guy looking for a lady friend other friends, your family, and even science.

There are new psychological studies conducted seemingly every friendd devoted to picking apart the extremely pressing question of whether men and women can be friends, even though they never seem to come to any concrete answers. Over the course of two yearsScientific American covered one study that claimed that men and women can't be friends single milf Newburgh men are disgusting horn-dog monsters, and one study that showed that men and women can be friends.

And yes, sometimes, male BFFs do end up becoming something. But often times, they don't. And no matter what happens, women with male best friends aren't pulling some kind of ffiend long con. I'm not saying we deserve a medal for dealing with the pressure of everyone's suspicions and expectations and still managing to maintain kick-ass friendships in the process, but Here are great guy looking for a lady friend things only we women with male best friends truly understand.

You care about each other intensely, support each other unconditionally, and mock each other mercilessly. Even if he's one of the girls, or you're one of the guys, the male-female BFF dynamic has a few subtle differences from other kinds ghy friendships. Even if you keep your own clothes in a giant pile in the middle of the room, you're basically Rachel Zoe when he's trying to figure out which pair of khakis to buy try to talk him out of the ones with the pleats kindly, if you.

I'm not saying none of your female friends want great guy looking for a lady friend hear that joke that ends with the farmer's dick falling off in the automatic milking machine; I'm just saying male friends are usually a more consistent audience for your "blue" material. It's as if every few weeks, someone tells him that women like to sex c9m complimented, so he says something nice about your hair even if it looks exactly the same as it always does.

Your female friends will carefully listen to the unique elements of your current dating drama, and come up with thoughtful and relevant advice; your male friends will tell you that this guy is an asshole. No one hears more about how guys are "all animals" than a woman with a male best friend.

You know: Typical friendship stuff. You try not to care, friiend just focus on your awesome friendship.